To: Cute New Friend

What just happened?

When I met you this weekend, I'll be honest, I thought you were cute. I wasn't expecting you to ask me out for drinks this evening though. Flattered of course, but unexpected. I didn't want to go out and I think you could tell my initial tone was of someone who was not interested in going out this evening. Essentially, I was hoping you were not going to ask me because I knew that if you did, I would say yes.

You did ask. I said yes.

I had a good time getting to know you. We've even made future plans already which is nice.

I'm just sort of left wondering what this was all about. Our emails back and forth seemed a little bit flirtatious. To my knowledge though, you are in a relationship (yes, I know ... story of my fucking life). So what's the deal here? You didn't mention that at all tonight.